SENIOR CARE HOMES, BEWARE OF THE HOME CARE SCAM. CHOOSE YOUR CAREGIVER WISELY!
Older people in particular are prone to ever increasing numbers of home care scams and deceptive activities. There are several reasons for this, but the most important is that these “caregivers” are extremely skilled at manoeuvring their way into the lives of older people and setting up trust. Sadly, that belief can rapidly develop into a disaster. Being lonely and isolation can make older adults in particular susceptible to relationships that begin as caregiver’s arrangements but rapidly cross the bounds into romance or friendship.
Often times, elders who are in dare need for happiness and love is more susceptible whenever someone steps in to meet these needs. Therefore, family members must be on guard for signs that a caregiver’s attachment to an older adult is becoming very personal. Any sad story or appeal for pity is a danger sign. You might begin to hear stories relating to the caregiver’s drastic financial straits, family issues or sick family members. In such cases, neither is common sense nor accusations going to work effectively. If you start to condemn the caregiver, it is most likely the older parent jump to their defence. Attempting to talk a person who is lonely from a relationship is similar to trying to talk them from the need to sleep or eat. On the contrary, express your compassion for their being alone and let them realize you really care about their condition.
Before leaving any senior with any caregiver, endeavour to ask yourself these questions:
- Have I had a chance to watch this person closely before I leave?
- Is this person good with aged people?
- Has this person been a good caregiver to other seniors?
When a caregiver has gained the heart of an older adult, she can begin to feel like family. And with housing shortage along with several seniors living alone, it is shockingly common for caregivers to ask if there is space for one more person. Initially this comes in form of a temporary request from a caregiver, but finally turns into a permanent situation. In situation like this, avoid direct condemnation since the desire of the senior in question was to be kind to someone he relies on. But now that he is being manipulated, he is susceptible to feel ashamed and humiliated. Confrontation cannot be avoided in this case, but avoid the risk of tempers spiking by approaching the issue efficiently.
Furthermore, abusive caregivers may not really be regarded as a caregiver scam, but maltreatment of susceptible individuals may be a form of scam. Whenever you place an older parent with a caregiver, it is realistic to assume they are providing that care. However caregivers without these may turn to hostility, which could vary from a hit to some kind of maltreatment like being tied to a chair, locked in a room etc. Check out references before using a particular caregiver. Do not just take a written reference as evidence; ensure to speak to past clients. Choosing a caregiver can either be a blessing or a curse. Thus beware of the home care scam, choose your caregiver wisely!